Whatever the reason for the separation, as members of Resolution all of our solicitors are committed to adopting a conciliatory and constructive approach to divorce where possible.

In order to obtain a divorce, you need to demonstrate to the court that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. To do this you need to rely on one of the following supporting ‘facts’:

• That your spouse has committed adultery
• That your spouse has acted in such a way that it is unreasonable for you to be expected to continue living with them

• That your spouse has deserted you for two years

• That you and your spouse have lived apart for two years and your spouse consents to the divorce
• That you and your spouse have lived apart for five years, whether or not your spouse consents to the divorce

Often both spouses can agree that the relationship is over. In this situation we can take care to draft the petition sensitively in order to avoid any unnecessary distress.

It is also possible to apply for judicial separation as an alternative to divorce. Judicial separation does not end the marriage but simply formalises the separation.

As from the 6th April 2011 it became compulsory for the majority of all couples seeking a divorce or separation to attend a mediation assessment meeting. The aim of the meeting is to find out whether you can achieve a divorce without having to involve the courts. To find out more about this meeting please click on mediation.

We can also advise you in relation to the issues surrounding all financial matters and children matters, which need to be resolved on a breakdown of the marriage.